Conversa de telhado... café, muffin partilhado, jet d'eau, mas sem mont blanc

- Everybody keeps telling me how brave I am because I've decided to move back… Why can't someone just tell me "you're making the right decision!".
Just that… no "buts" or esoteric compliments…
- ahaha and… do you expect to hear that from me?!?!?!? You know I'm the most insensitive and rational person in the world when it comes to analysing such decisions… and you known I don't believe in "love & shelter" kind of decision…
- I know… but in fact… yes, I was expecting to hear that from you…
- You shouldn't!
- But tell me what do you think…. Bluntly …
- I don't think I should…
- I really need to know…
- Well… I think that if you made a well thought decision… if you weighted all pros and cons and you came to the conclusion that you would rather be here with him then somewhere else… than, I'm sure you made the right decision.
As long as you know that you're moving back because You decided and You felt that would be the decision that would made You happier... Just don't feel pressured to do something you're not sure it's really what you want! Otherwise on the 1st argument you'll scream out that you moved just because of him… and that's not fair!!
You should never put that kind of blame in the other person's shoulders…
As long as you know you can't blame anyone else but you for what you decided… than you'll be fine… Plus… it's not such a big deal is it?
- Of course it is… I'm leaving so may great job opportunities behind…
- But you can always go back…
- I suppose I can…
- Then, just think carefully…
- I don't want to be apart anymore… This is really what I want…
- Then you don't need to hear from me that you're making the right move do you?
- Nope… probably not…
- Good! I would hate to take part in such a decision chain!! ahahahah